Well, hello there and welcome to this episode of the Terry Cole show.

Today we are talking about how to co-parent in high conflict, divorce situations.

I'm talking to Gabriella Pomeri, who is an award-winning family lawyer, but a co-parenting expert and the author

of The Collaborative Co-Parent, which came out last September, and her basically her work

sits in the intersection of boundaries, emotion regulation, and what happens when high-functioning

women stop over-functioning in their most important relationship.

So we really talked about communication and sort of not getting activated.

She gave us some ideas about how to sort of make the distinction between responding and being

responsible for, which is different.

So anyway, I actually thought this was a great conversation.

I hope that you guys love this interview with Gabriela as much as I enjoyed interviewing

her. This is the Terry Cole show, and as you might have guessed, I'm your host, Terry Cole.

For over two decades, I've been a licensed psychotherapist, love and boundaries expert,

and I'm also the founder of the Real Love Revolution and Boundary Boot Camp. On this show,

I'll bring you simple strategies based on practical psychology, inspiring expert interviews,

and my own insights and observations from my time on the front lines in the fascinating world

of entertainment, empowerment, and mental health. Now let's get going with today's episode.

Well, I am super pumped to welcome my new pal, Gabriella Pomeri, to the Jerry Cola Show.

Gabriela, welcome.

Thank you. Thanks so much for having me.

I'm super psyched that you are here. It seems like a lot of our work is aligned with high

functioning women, with overgivers and family systems. But I want to start from the beginning with you. Like if you were a Marvel

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