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All right, let's move it on into today's episode.

Well, hello there and welcome to this episode of the Terry Cole Show.

I want to start with a question.

Have you ever had the experience of someone asking you a question that felt judgmental,

invasive, really just plain rude, someone just asking like this outlandish question.

Could be a parent, a family member, which actually makes it even harder to respond.

Maybe someone who thinks they're, quote, unquote, just being honest.

And maybe in that situation, you froze.

Or you smiled and you over explained.

Or you answered a question that you really wished later on that you

didn't?

Anybody?

Later on, maybe you start ruminating, like, why?

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