This is Habitatus Podcast and I'm Havala Cunnington.

I, well, today is going to be an interesting podcast because we're going to talk about

conflict.

We're going to talk about when you get stuck in a place where, well, it's either a rock

in a hard place or sometimes we use the phrase lose, lose.

And we get stuck in relational seasons where we get between a rock and a hard place.

And it doesn't mean we've done something wrong, but we definitely need tools to figure

out how to get there.

So sit back, put your seatbelt on, and we're going to get started as we go into the idea

of, well, resolving conflict.

So what I want to say is this.

First, conflict is normal.

I know.

Sometimes we think that if we don't have conflict, then we are peaceful people.

We are, well, we are easy to be with.

We're easy to get along with.

And then some of us, we're so used to conflict, we can't even imagine life without some

kind of relational breakdown or drama following us.

And I want to show you some things that I use almost every day to resolve conflict or

maybe even to live through conflict.

Because sometimes you can't resolve everything.

You can't change somebody.

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