If someone just describing all their exes as crazy or insane, but then on top of that,

are they also just with you because they didn't like being alone?

And this is the kind of stuff you notice through their language.

Like, I'm just so glad to not be with that person anymore. I'm so glad I don't have that in my life

anymore. Rather than, this is what I appreciate about you. This is what I really value about.

You notice how it's a negative skew versus a positive skew. A negative skew of the past

is not as good as a positive skew to the future.

Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the number one help podcast in the world.

Thanks to each and every one of you that come back every week to listen, learn and grow.

We've had some incredible, fascinating episodes recently. So many amazing conversations.

I want to make sure that you don't miss out on them. This week we had the one and only big

shaw and a couple of weeks ago we had the one and only Lauren London two phenomenal episodes.

And one of your favorite solo episodes was last week, seven ways to be productive,

even when you're tired. And from a few months ago, this one really stood out to all of you.

Eight types of people you need in your life for 2022. That was January 28th.

Make sure you go back and take a listen if you miss those. Again, I am so grateful for your time.

So grateful for your ears and so grateful for your energy and presence in this moment.

I also want to give a big shout out to all of you who've been bumping into me in and around

LA while I'm traveling and telling me that you listen to On Purpose. It means the world to me.

I literally couldn't be happier when someone says to me,

Jay, listen to On Purpose and I just want to give you a massive hug. So even if I don't get to see you,

if you're feeling that I want to give you a big hug, I just want you to know that and I fully,

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