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The Terri Cole Show

789 Overcome Your People-Pleasing Habits with Beatriz Albina

The Terri Cole Show

Terri Cole

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 4 December 2025

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Are you stuck in people-pleasing, perfectionism, and emotional exhaustion? Nurse practitioner and somatic therapist Baya Albina reveals what "emotional outsourcing" really means and how it's sabotaging your relationships and health. Learn about "functional freeze", constantly doing but feeling nothing and discover practical steps to reconnect with your body, set boundaries without guilt, and stop fixing everyone around you. If you can't relax when someone's upset or always put others first, this conversation will change everything.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, hello there and welcome to this episode of The Terry Cole Show. I just had a very, very interesting interview with someone who wrote a book.

0:12.3

Her name is Bea Albina. And she has a book that's out right now called End Emotional Outsourcing, How to Overcome Your Co-Dependent, Perfectionist,

0:23.3

and People-P pleasing Habits. And we just have this whole conversation about what does it actually

0:28.5

mean to emotionally outsource? We talked about living in a functional freeze. What is that about?

0:36.7

So, Bea, and it's Beatrice, Victoria Albina,

0:40.7

N.P. That's, that's her thing online. She's a trained nurse practitioner. She's somatic

0:47.3

experience practitioner. I mean, she's got a zillion, like literally 30 things. I'm not going to

0:53.0

read them all to you. You don't need to. You get the point.

0:55.8

She's been doing this for a long time. She's got a podcast called Feminist Wellness Podcasts.

1:01.7

And this is a book that she wrote that is near and dear to her heart. So if you identify as a people

1:10.0

pleaser or as someone who is pretty externally

1:13.5

focused, I think that you are going to really love this interview with Beah as much as I

1:20.7

loved interviewing her. This is the Terry Cole show, and as you might have guessed, I'm your host, Terry Cole.

1:37.7

For over two decades, I've been a licensed psychotherapist, love and boundaries expert,

1:42.5

and I'm also the founder of the Real Love Revolution

1:45.0

and Boundary Boot Camp. On this show, I'll bring you simple strategies based on practical

1:50.0

psychology, inspiring expert interviews, and my own insights and observations from my time

1:55.9

on the front lines in the fascinating world of entertainment, empowerment, and mental health.

2:01.3

Now, let's get going with today's episode.

2:10.5

I am so excited to welcome Bea Albina to the Terry Cole Show. Welcome Bea.

2:16.6

Oh, Terry, thank you so much for having me. I'm really

2:19.3

honored to be here. I'm super psyched about the conversation we're about to have. I was just talking

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