How to know if he is he is simply he is simply wasting your time or he sees you as marriage long-term relationship material girly

lean in this is what we're talking about today we might say that this topic

doesn't matter it doesn't matter who wants to get married who was to have kids

these days who wants any of it forget

it fob it off you're an independent queen you are you know gonna forge your

own way in the world and you don't need anybody but your hamster and that's fine but this one is for the girls who don't want to waste their time.

This is for the people who understand, the women, the women, the girls, the females who understand that we are working

with a different timeline, you and I.

You and I, we're working with a different timeline.

Our time is of the essence, our time is more precious than his time. We've got Robert De Niro, dear Bobby over here, having children at 77, big age, big age of 77, okay? Congrats to him. I love that for him. Wow, while we we are? But we, you and I, my girly friend, don't have that luxury. But it's also the fact that it's not a luxury we have the time to have all these children and all these things, it's also it makes us more precious it makes us as females in our female

fertility and in our timing a lot more precious than it would a man's timing that's why why they can dilly dally through life.

They can dilly dally. They can walk around. They can look at the scenery.

This one, that one. Which flower shall I pick? They are like snow white, you know, in the field picking flowers with the animals gathering around them.

You and I are not. You need to get serious if you want a marriage, kids-style relationships. J jokes aside with a guy.

You need to get serious, okay, and stop them wasting your time.

Your time is precious. You have to build your career in your 20s, you're got to move out in your 20s, you've got to do your university, your college in your 20s,

you've got to do all kinds of things in your...

You see my camera fell down from the shock, from the shock, if you heard a thud in if you were listening on podcast That was my camera falling down because it was shook us for you okay?

Because I'm also filming this for YouTube. So if you want to see my face as I talk go on YouTube and I'll see you there

but the reason it's important jokes aside is because you there is many many

times many many coincidences not coincidences many specific incidences that I've seen and you've seen and we've all seen of a man sitting on you like the chair that you are reserved for him from the age of 23 to the age of 36 at which point he decides he doesn't want children and he doesn't want to marry you.

What a trudge because now you've missed out on that and he has married Rachel after you and he is

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