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From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show. We're being busy

over done. Romancing is fun and scheduling sex as taking the guesswork at a wondering

one you're going to get some. I'm Tony Dilloranzo, your co-host along with my beautiful wife,

Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

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In today's episode, we're exploring how the two of you can bring variety to the positions you engage in.

And many of you are likely familiar with the quote that variety is the spice of life.

But today's quote comes from Helen Roland that says variety is the spice of love.

And I think as we talk about different positions to get in and what not,

variety is going to kind of be a theme that you see in today's episode. But first,

we start every oneextraordinary marriage episode with a hug. And a hug is really an opportunity

to celebrate what's going on in your marriage. To celebrate your intentionality, the breakthroughs

that you've had. And this hug came from an Instagram direct message that we received that said,

I recently, two weeks ago, found the podcast and I found many more revolving around the same topics.

But none of them have caught my ear like y'all. I've learned so much and planned to continue learning.

My husband and I have been together eight years married for two and I thought we had a great sex life.

Boy was I wrong. His sex drive is high and I've always thought mine was almost nonexistent.

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