Paul, last episode we had a question from a believer who was dating an unbeliever and wanted your advice.

Today we have a scenario from a brother whose sister is about to get married to an unbeliever,

and he wants to know how to address this with his sister or if he should address it at all.

So here's the question from all the way across the other side of the

world in Australia. My sister has been in a relationship with a non-believer for the last seven years

and is getting married to him. I'm in the wedding party and I would love to give her a copy of your book

marriage. My wife and I have been married for two years and were gifted your book as a wedding gift

and we've really enjoyed it.

Obviously, the ideal answer is the book brings her back to Christ, but secondarily and more realistically,

I would just like her to read the book. My sister was raised a Christian, but now sadly is distant.

She claims she still has a faith and she prays, and I see her joining in with worship at Christmas with the family,

but she has no other church community and lives like a non-believer. I recognize that your book is

clearly for believers and I don't believe her unbelieving, but open fiancé, is likely to read it with her.

I've thought carefully about crafting a letter. I'll be praying for my sister and her fiancee and that

the Lord may open doors to witness to them and strengthen and grow them as they tackle the crazy

challenges of marriage. So, Paul, in this situation, would you write a letter or what would you say?

Or would you try to quote, end quote, just let it play out and see what happens this guy wants

to know if he should write a letter or what he should include in the letter surely this is a

situation that requires that important combination of wisdom, and love.

Wisdom means that it's very important to think distinctly, biblically, about this kind of

situation.

And I want to talk as specifically as I can about what was described in this question,

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