766 The Foundation of Real Love: Emotional Security
The Terri Cole Show
Terri Cole
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 30 September 2025
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
For many of us, emotional security is the missing piece in our relationships. It's subtle, but its absence is exhausting. Without it, love feels like walking on eggshells, never fully able to relax into who we are.
This week on The Terri Cole Show, I share what emotional security really means, why it matters so much, and how to start cultivating it in yourself and with the people you love. Because when it's missing, everything is more challenging than it needs to be. But when it is present, everything becomes easier and more transparent.
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| 0:00.0 | Well, hello there and welcome to this episode of the Terry Cole Show. I'm so happy that you are |
| 0:06.1 | joining me. I want to start with a question, do you feel like you are walking on eggshells in your |
| 0:11.2 | relationship or like you can't fully relax or can't fully be yourself? If so, that might be a sign |
| 0:17.7 | of emotional insecurity in the relationship. So today I'm going to be |
| 0:23.2 | walking you through what is emotional security, why it matters, and how to cultivate it in |
| 0:29.1 | your own life. Because when you really think about it, right, what is the heart of every |
| 0:35.1 | healthy relationship? It really is emotional security and safety. So whether you realize |
| 0:42.4 | it or not, your level of emotional security actually determines how safe, seen, and satisfied |
| 0:49.3 | you feel in your love relationships and work relationships, friendships, family. It's all the people and all the |
| 0:55.4 | things. So that's what we're going to be covering today. So before we get into it, I want to take a |
| 0:59.1 | moment to say thank you so much for hanging out. I love you guys being here. As you know, I've been |
| 1:04.9 | like an emotional wreck all month because I'm so emotional because it's our 10 year anniversary |
| 1:09.0 | of the Terry Gold show and just so many |
| 1:11.4 | nice people doing nice things and saying nice things and leaving five-star reviews. And wow, |
| 1:17.3 | it just makes me feel incredibly seen, speaking of, seen, and very emotionally secure, |
| 1:22.7 | if I say so myself. So thank you, thank you, thank you. And if you love the show, if you're new, if you're old, |
| 1:28.9 | it helps me so much. If you go and rate it, review it and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, please go |
| 1:35.3 | do it. I love to share the five-star review. So I want to say thank you, S, period, for this five-star |
| 1:41.1 | review, practical and direct. Started listening to the Terry Cole show after hearing her on another podcast. |
| 1:46.5 | I love how direct, relatable, and practical the episodes are. |
| 1:49.7 | Looking forward to working my way through the Boundre Boss book as I take on the next chapter of my story. |
| 1:54.9 | Well, thank you, S, period. |
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