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The James Altucher Show

751 - Vanessa Bohns (Part 1) : You Have More Influence Than You Think, just ask!

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James Altucher

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4.62.7K Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2021

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Do you know you have more influence than you think? Do you know, when you have hard times asking for things that you want, it's also equally hard for someone else to say no, and reject you! I have been fascinated by this topic as you know, I have Robert Cialdini on before to talk about this topic! In this episode, Vanessa Bohns, a social psychologist and professor of organizational behavior at Cornell University, and author, came on to talk about her new book, You Have More Influence Than You Think. In this episode, Vanessa shared the studies she had done, and stories to show that sometimes people would likely do what you asked than rejecting you! Listen to this Part 1 out of 2, and Part 2 will come out the same day too! My new book Skip The Line is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever you get your new book! Join You Should Run For President 2.0 Facebook Group, and we discuss why should run for president. I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltucher.com/podcast. Thanks so much for listening! If you like this episode, please subscribe to “The James Altucher Show” and rate and review wherever you get your podcasts: Apple Podcasts Stitcher iHeart Radio Spotify Follow me on Social Media: YouTube Twitter Facebook

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0:00.0

This isn't your average business podcast and he's not your average host.

0:06.8

This is the James Altiger Show.

0:12.8

Today on the James Altiger Show.

0:16.0

People always say, does it hurt to ask?

0:18.8

I remember one time I wrote a book and everyone said, oh, you should ask.

0:21.9

So and so if you can go on his podcast and I was so nervous, it terrified me.

0:27.0

And then the other question is, how can I have more influence in life?

0:30.8

Like I have things that I feel strongly about.

0:33.3

I want people to like me.

0:34.8

I want to make friends.

0:36.0

Are there ways to have more influence?

0:37.5

Maybe I have more influence than I think.

0:40.2

So we spoke to Vanessa Bonn, author of You Have More Influence than You Think.

0:45.4

And in the first half, part one, she describes stories of how the notorious cyber hacker

0:52.7

and metnik would use the power of asking, the unexpected power of asking that he knew

0:58.9

about to basically social engineer his way to get passwords and so on to hack into companies.

1:04.6

She describes very interesting studies about how people shouldn't be as afraid to ask

1:09.4

as they think.

1:10.8

People maybe have more influence as the titles just than they think and why we discuss

1:15.0

that.

1:16.0

Two, we give specific exercises, how can we improve your superpower of asking, your

1:23.4

superpower of influence?

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