From San Diego, California, this is the one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy as overdone, romance-ing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork

out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Del Lorenzo, your co-host along with

my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at

a-5-8-8-7-6-5-663, or send us an email to hugs at 1-extralinarymarriage.com.

In today's episode, we're talking about the importance of making foreplay more than an afterthought

when it comes to your sexual intimacy. There's an anonymous quote that says,

we make time for what's important to us. If you haven't made time for it, it's because you

haven't convinced yourself that it's important. I was like, oh, there's a little bit of

sting on that one. Not just when it comes to talking about foreplay, but to talking about a lot of

things in marriage. I think for a lot of couples, it's true that if you aren't making time for

foreplay, you might not be convinced yet that it's actually important to your sexual intimacy.

We're going to be digging into that in today's episode, but first, we start every one extraordinary

marriage episode with a hug. A hug is really an opportunity for us to share the transformation,

the revelations, the insights, the accomplishments that you're having in your marriage. This hug

comes from an email that we received in response to the one extraordinary couple feature in the

most recent position post magazine. This person starts by saying, I want to thank you for

publishing the one extraordinary couple story on dealing with an affair and a marriage.

I know it's not a popular opinion, but I went through it five years ago and I'm going through it now.

We've been together since high school and I'm devastated and sad. My husband regrets it,

wants to stay, has cut off all communication with the other woman, wants to go to therapy,

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