728: Nicki and Lance Miles' Mormon Transition Pt. 2
Mormon Stories Podcast
Dr. John Dehlin
4.5 • 5.7K Ratings
🗓️ 21 April 2017
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
In this 4-part series, we interview Nicki and Lance Miles who share their Mormon upbringing, how they met, and how their individual mission experiences intertwined in Episode 1.
In Episode 2, we have a serious discussion about Lance’s father who comes out as gay and the impact it had on the Miles family. Nicki and Lance share how their feelings towards their father evolved in a more positive direction as time progressed.
Episode 3 details the meeting Nicki and Lance had with Marlin K. Jensen, former historian for the LDS Church. They detail the questions asked of the historian, and the impact his answers had on them.
Rounding out the interview, in Episode 4 we discuss Nicki’s feminist awakening and the impact it had on Lance’s view of their marriage. Transitioning out of the LDS Church led the couple to take a serious look at the foundation of their marriage and their approach to raising their children.
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| 0:49.3 | Hello and welcome back to my interview with Nikki and Lance Miles. That's right. |
| 0:58.1 | So far we've covered Nikki's loss of her father and how that tight started |
| 1:05.8 | tying her to the church to be the good daughter. To get her all family back into |
| 1:10.9 | the Celestial Kingdom again, we talked about their respective mission |
| 1:14.7 | experiences and how maybe they're a little too friendly with each other or not |
| 1:18.9 | friendly enough depending on your perspective and how that led to massive |
| 1:23.7 | pre and during and post mission trauma is they're trying to be worthy and you |
| 1:30.6 | know you know had a little bit too much fun according to the church and at the |
| 1:35.6 | same time nothing serious or severe that in any way should warrant such trauma. |
| 1:41.4 | We talked about all that, we talked about them getting married and it's just a |
| 1:47.0 | really moving first part, first couple parts. And so we're touched, we're |
| 1:53.6 | so grateful to have so many people joining us through Facebook Live and now |
| 1:59.0 | what we're gonna do is we're gonna we're gonna focus the next little segment on |
| 2:02.2 | the story about Lance's dad because it's truly kind of a harrowing epic story |
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