From San Diego, California, this is a one-exordinary marriage show.

We're being busy as overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex is taking the guesswork

at a wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Dilloranzo, your co-host,

along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world,

thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 858-876-5663 or send us an email to hugs

at oneexordinarymarriage.com. In today's episode, we're discussing the statements

I'm too busy or I'm too tired and the impact that they have on your sexual intimacy.

And Steve Mariboli had this to say about busyness. He said, when someone tells you that they are too

busy, it's not a reflection of their schedule. It's a reflection of your spot on their schedule.

We're talking about that in today's episode. But first, we start every one extraordinary

marriage show with a hug. You'll look like you want to say something before I start the hug.

Yeah, that quote is brutal.

It's a little confrontational. Yeah, absolutely. It's a reflection of your spot on their schedule.

That can be really brutal. When it comes to marriage, I think sometimes we push the limits here

at oneexordinarymarriage and sometimes we will get in your face about statements like being

I'm too busy or I'm too tired. But first, let me share the hug. Let's go with the hug.

We will get into all of that. I promised. I wish you could see Tony's face because he was just like,

whoa. But first and foremost, a hug is really, it's an opportunity to celebrate you.

To celebrate what you're doing, how you're impacting others when it comes to this amazing,

wonderful, challenging, all of it thing called marriage. And this hug comes from an email that we

received that starts out. I work as a family nurse practitioner and had a patient during a pelvic

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