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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

715: WHAT ARE WE FOCUSED ON

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Christianity, Kids & Family, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality

4.61.7K Ratings

🗓️ 9 August 2022

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Learn what can happen when you get focused on the pillar of intimacy that needs the most attention in your marriage. | "You don’t get results by focusing on the results. You get results by focusing on the actions that produce the results." —Mike Hawkins Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Getaway  Emotions Wheel 710: Summer Sex Challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

0:03.9

We're being busy as overdone. Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the

0:07.6

guesswork at a wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Dilloranzo, your co-host,

0:11.6

along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world,

0:16.0

thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

0:20.4

Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 858-876-56363 or send us an email to hugs

0:27.2

at onexordinarymarriage.com. In today's episode, we're inviting you to get focused on the pillar

0:33.7

of intimacy that needs the most attention in your marriage. There's a quote from Mike Hawkins that

0:38.9

says, you don't get results by focusing on results. You get results by focusing on the actions

0:45.3

that produce results. That is the truth. That's so true when it comes to discussing your pillars

0:51.2

of intimacy. I'm going to get into that in today's episode. But first, we start every one

0:55.5

extraordinary marriage episode with a hug. The hug is really, it's an opportunity for Tony and I

0:59.8

to give you that virtual high five to say, hey, job well done on being intentional and taking action

1:05.6

in your marriage. This hug comes from a post that was in the one family private Facebook group

1:09.6

that starts with last night was date night. We're totally talking about recreational intimacy from

1:15.2

the get go. When my husband got home from work, he was commenting that he felt sticky and I joked,

1:20.4

ask and asking if we needed to go play in the sprinkler like the grandkids. A little bit later,

1:26.0

he suggested that we set up the croquet set that I found in the free section at a local yard

1:29.9

sale last week and played that in the sprinkler. So we did. It was fun and silly and we'll for sure

1:36.1

do it again. We might have to make it a summer tournament. I'm not competitive that way, but he is

1:41.1

so I completed that trait in him and he's a good sport about me not being good at games or sports.

1:46.6

That becomes part of the fun too. He's naturally really good at games and sports and I'm really well

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