From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy as overdone, romantic as fun, and scheduling sex is taking the

guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Dilloranzo,

your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world,

thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a

call or text us on the hug hotline at 858-875-663 or send us an email to Hugs at oneexordinarymarriage.com.

In today's show, we're talking about building your sexual emotional and physical intimacy

with a summer sex challenge. And as we talk about that, we start with today's quote,

which is, the bigger the challenge, the bigger the opportunity. And I think that's exceptionally

true when it comes to talking about a summer sex challenge and we'll get into that in today's

episode. But first, we start every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug. And really,

a hug is an opportunity for us to be able to celebrate you, to be able to celebrate what you've

done in your marriage and just the transformation that you're experiencing. And this hug comes from

an email that we received that starts with, we've been married for seven years and it's been a

really rough ride to say the least. I didn't know how to be married or how to build a strong,

healthy relationship and I caused a lot of damage. I found your podcast as I was desperately

searching for help. My husband had given me an ultimatum. I love him the most and I don't want to

lose him. You have given me so much hope and determination to build the tools I need for my

marriage toolbox. Come on. Love it. Come on. We're talking about the marriage toolbox.

A little excited about that. I listened to an episode of your podcast first thing in the morning

and I even made a marriage boot camp workbook where I take notes on each one. I share what I've

learned with my husband over coffee later on in the morning and we discuss how to apply your advice

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