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71. Mail Bag: Marriage Issues

Insource

Ashlie Molstad

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.2940 Ratings

🗓️ 21 March 2024

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

In this weeks episode we dive into the mail bag. I explore three different scenarios in three listeners marriages and try to give insight and guidance to help them make a decision that feels good and empowering to them.

First up we chat about feeling disconnected from your spouse when you’ve got little kids at home.
The second scenario is about supporting a spouse with mental illness, and how to drop resentment and judgement so you can get back to loving.
The third is about wanting to end a marriage and how to know when it is time.

I love doing these mailbag episodes, so if you’ve got any situations you need my advice on, you can always email me at Ashlie.molstad@gmai.com

See you inside💥

Website: ashliemolstad.com
Email: ashlie.molstad@gmail.com
IG: @ashliemolstad

Transcript

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0:00.0

My husband and I love very differently. I am words of affirmation and quality time.

0:08.0

He is acts of service. He's always doing stuff for our family, cleaning the house, cooking, getting stuff, like checking off to do list stuff.

0:17.0

He's very attentive to our family, but it doesn't always feel like love to me.

0:22.0

He walks by me in the kitchen and doesn't always feel like love to me.

0:23.0

He walks by me in the kitchen and doesn't touch me or whatever.

0:25.6

Like, you know, we just kind of walk by each other

0:28.2

and she's like, okay, so you've just decided that.

0:30.8

Like you've just decided that he doesn't like you until you're looking for evidence.

0:34.7

But what if you just decided that he did? Well, welcome, welcome back to the InSours Podcast,

0:44.0

How are you guys? I'm so glad you're here

0:56.9

with me again today. I was just thinking about man like this podcast is hard.'s been hard for me to come up with content every week and

1:06.7

I feel like you know it's worth putting in your ears and

1:11.1

taking up some of your time and energy I thought maybe I should turn it into like a

1:14.0

season you know how people do that they have like seasons and I was like shut the

1:18.6

F up why are you doing that you're trying to get out because this is hard oh Oh, okay. Like you can't do hard things, get over it. What are you talking about?

1:26.8

Every week you're getting tons and tons of messages from people saying thank you. So like, could you just get it together so you know I'm

1:33.6

constantly coaching myself and it doesn't sound as mean as I just sounded like I

1:38.8

try to be kind to myself of like no you want to do this you committed to it so what if it's hard like

1:44.8

you learn things and by it being hard and not every podcast has to be a home run you just

1:49.8

got to show up to the mic and share what you've got. But I will say I got to thank you guys because last

1:56.4

week inspiration struck and I did the Apologies and Repair Podcast but I wasn't sure what I wanted to record and so I asked you guys what do you need

2:06.2

help with what situations are going on in your world that I can help give you

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