706: The Art of the First Impression

The Art of Charm

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Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2018

⏱️ 86 minutes

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We’re not sure why people aren’t responding to us. We think we’re good at reading people. On today’s episode, we are discussing how to make the best first impression. Whether you’re a CEO trying to better connect with your employees, an introvert wishing to project a bit more confidence, or maybe you judge people the second you see them coming (ps., they see you too) this conversation will provide insights you can apply to your goal. The Cheat Sheet What are the 4 layers of first impressions? Why is focusing on other people’s body language a fool’s errand? How do we reverse our primal instinct to mirror other people’s behaviors? What was AJ’s first impression of Johnny, and vice versa? Why is our gut based in fear and how do we ignore its voice? And so much more… Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/art-of-charm-podcast-the-art-of-first-impression-706/ Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free -- that's over three times as long as the standard trial! DesignCrowd helps startups and small businesses crowdsource custom graphics, logos, Web design -- even tattoo designs! Check out DesignCrowd.com/Charm for a special $100 VIP offer for our listeners or enter the discount code CHARM when posting a project. HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview

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0:00.0	Welcome back to the Art of Chime. I'm Johnny and I'm AJ and here on the Art of Charm podcast,
0:05.2	we're talking today about a topic near and dear to both of us called first impressions.
0:10.9	Today we're going to dive into the importance of being aware of what you're giving off.
0:15.8	So you're making that first impression that you want to be making.
0:19.5	Today we're going to be talking about our own realizations about how we were coming off
0:24.0	when we were gauky teenagers and we wanted to be seen as adults and in my case,
0:29.0	I wanted to be a rock star is so bad. So I started mimicking my heroes.
0:35.2	That's a great example, Johnny. And we're going to talk about my first impression of you
0:40.3	carrying this rock star persona and all the baggage and judgment that I was carrying towards you.
0:45.6	And I'm sure that your first impression of me wasn't that great because you felt that I was
0:49.8	judging you. Which you were. I admit it. But it's also to look back on that experience and know
0:55.4	that we push past those incorrect first impressions we had of each other. And now we're able to
1:00.0	teach what we've learned about first impressions here on the podcast and in our boot camps.
1:04.4	So whether you're a young kid who wants to grow up and be a rock star or an introvert who just
1:09.0	wants to project a bit more confidence or maybe you just can't figure out why you're not getting
1:13.6	the job or relationship you want. The conversation we have in this episode can change everything for
1:19.6	you. And it's a challenge for sure to ask your feedback from your friends and take a hard look
1:25.2	at the first impressions you're giving off as well as your own judgments of others first impressions.
1:31.5	And speaking of challenges, we've recently relaunched the AOC challenge. A group where everyone,
1:37.8	both men and women can join a community of like-minded people who are looking to up their self-development
1:43.6	game. Are nearly 17,000 member Facebook group is open to anyone who wants to join our free
1:50.4	challenge. You can go to theartofcharm.com slash challenge and register today.
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