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San Diego, California. This is a one extraordinary marriage show. We're being busy. It's over done

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex is taking the guess we're kind of wondering when you're gonna get some

I'm Tony Deloranzo your co-host along with my beautiful wife Alisa from coast to coast and around the world

Thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex love and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at eight five eight eight seven six five six six three or send us an email to hugs at one

extraordinary marriage dot com. In today's show we're talking about the impact that secret spending has on your financial intimacy and your emotional intimacy and there's a

Quote around this from genre scene that says there are no secrets that time does not reveal and if you've ever coached with me

You know that I've said this about every area of your life, not just money that as we're focusing on in today's episode

But first and foremost, we start every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug and a hug is really an opportunity to celebrate how the two of you are being intentional in your marriage

How you're taking action around the different intimacies and this hug comes from a post and the one family that says today was a great and productive day

We worked on several different intimacies today. I love that you can work on more than one at a time

Goes on to say we were supposed to have a date on Thursday

But there was a schedule conflict with the grandparents, so we pivoted and had one today

We had some dessert before dinner and for those of you that have never heard us use that before that is actually

Engaging in your sexual intimacy

Before you go and like do date night or have dinner and all that kind of stuff

So as we had some dessert before dinner and then went to grab the actual dessert ingredients and dinner and then came back home to relax and make some hand pies together

They were so yummy. It's been much better this week

I think we needed to give ourselves permission to take time for ourselves again looking forward to the next date

Also, we did it

Nothing like an impromptu seven-day challenge to get things moving in the right direction. Oh wow

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