Well, hello, hello, guys. You're listening to Beauty Bites with Dr. Kay, Secrets of a Plastic Surgeon,

and today we are going to talk about Valentine's things,

all about Valentine's Things with my good friend, Brian the Diamond.

I know you've seen Brian on TikTok and Instagram and all over the place with his viral videos.

He is a character, and we are going to talk about confidence, how to put yourself out there, Valentine's topics. You guys are going to talk about confidence how to put yourself out there valentine's

topics you guys are going to love this what do you do what are you known for so i'm known for

it just depends but for the most part it would be i would consider it lifestyle comedy um i really

integrate my followers and my audience into like my life. So that's where we have,

you know, the, um, what's that, the privacy. I don't really have much of that. No boundaries. No boundaries.

Um, even though sometimes I want them. It's bright in the raw. Well, like, Valentine's is coming.

You're like the biggest cupid and you he has so many tips

for girls and guys out there 100% so something that I'm currently struggling on because

this is also my yeah this is also my birthday month so something I'm struggling on because

I'm about to turn 25 and I was like holy shit like I feel like I'm getting so old it's like

a quarter century existential crisis.

And then I walk in here and all the girls are like, you look so good.

You look great. And I think it's really important to remember that like you are your biggest critic, but also your perception of yourself is 100% different than everyone else's perception. Yeah. Because I walk in here and I'm like, I'm talking to me with Dr. Kay and I was like, I just got a facial, so like obviously my skin looks better.

Yes.

Hi, hashtag, Dr. Kay brothers today. But I walked in here and everyone was like, you look so good, you look so great. And I was like, that's so funny because like on the inside I'm like, I don't feel like I look any great. But like I walk here. You weren't feeling yourself. I really wasn't. What do people do when they're not feeling themselves? Because it does hit you. Sometimes it just hits you. So there's the obvious one. You can cry in your bed alone. Sometimes they do that, it's fine. But then for the most part, I think like, just remember that you're your biggest critic. And always, yeah. I think the voice that you speak to yourself with. To me, I have to put that in the check because you get into this negative mindset where you're just saying all the bad things. Or the comparison game. Comparison is the thief of joy guys. You cannot compare yourself to literally anyone else because it's not apples to apple. You are a perfect individual and no matter how much you

think you're not or you think there's issues, people feel the same issues that you do.

What's in right now for girls and for guys? Like as far as looking good, feeling great.

Okay, so I don't... You've been telling me about lips in Miami how it was scary yeah so

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