Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life

lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

So I came across this article that a woman, it's on her website, Her name is Kelly Gallagher and the article was written by me and she

reposted it and is asking readers what they thought of it.

She thought the article was interesting.

And the title is,

Seven Things Men Really, Really Want in a relationship.

And I remember writing this years ago, maybe 10 years ago,

and I wanted to revisit it to see if it still holds up.

By the way, is this microphone too big? Am I trying to make up for something that, I mean look at the size of this microphone I'm holding, it's like a bat.

You know, it's not, it's this thing. I have this square angry therapist brand hubcap that that's attached to my microphone

Anyway, let me set this down. It feels very weird and maybe the noise, the sound is not good, just me waving it like a wand.

All right. Here we go. So I'm going to go through this and I'm sure there's

going to be stuff in here that I cringe at because I have I mean I'm sure you've experienced something like this too where you you

know you write something or maybe it's something you wore you see a photo and

you're like oh I can't believe I wore that orange sweater and you

know I come across this all the time just because I've been writing for so long in books.

In my books I'll read something.

I'm like, oh, that it does not hold up

and I wish I could take it out.

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