Are you only trying to save this relationship because you're scared of being alone?

Are you trying to save it for any other reason than I'm scared of being alone and I'm scared of what my friends are going to say?

If your reason for trying to save a relationship is I don't want to be alone, I don't want to see them with anyone else.

I don't want to have to deal with what my friends and family are going to say.

If those are your reasons for staying in a relationship, it's not a relationship you should be trying to save or stay.

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Now today's a theme that I've wanted to cover for quite some time and it's such an important episode. I think this is going to be one that you're going to want to share with your friends share with family members. This is one that's going to be important and useful for a long time.

And that's not for a good reason. It's unfortunate.

But the amount of friends, clients, family members that I have in my life that tell me that they discovered that their partner was cheating on them is more than I'd like.

And that's why today we're talking about the seven relationship doubts people have and how to know if you're truly compatible.

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