7: 3 Texts That Make Him Chase You

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 9 March 2020

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Most women are used to being told things like: “You need to make him work for it”, “You need to have standards”, “You need to respect yourself” But how do you actually do it?

For example, if he sends you a flakey text on the night of a date, how should you respond to get him chasing again (whilst showing you have self-respect)? In this episode, we're going to give you 3 killer texts that show your standards, put you back in control, and double his attraction for you.

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0:00.0	Call Nietzsche-Wah listeners, this is Steven Hussie, coming at you from Tokyo, where
0:26.2	I'm still residing right now, hence the Japanese introduction. And today, I want to begin, as
0:33.4	my dear brother Matthew suggested, by reading a listener email. So I've been responding to
0:40.1	a lot of your emails in private, and those of you who got responses, I'm getting back to
0:43.9	as many as I can. Thank you so much for joining in the discussion and your thoughtful comments.
0:48.9	Like I said, I've read every email that's been sent into the show. And today, I want to
0:53.4	read an email from a listener who has chosen to remain anonymous, unless she'd be identified by
0:58.9	her email. So I'm going to respect that and not give her name. But she says, I loved the episode
1:06.1	Why Men Don't Open Up, and I wanted to say why. Matthew, I think it's great that you asked
1:12.2	that woman if you could kiss her. I had a recent experience with a man who asked me if he could
1:17.4	kiss me, and I loved it, especially given that there is lots of discussion about me too, and
1:23.8	consent, and I felt like he was being respectful to me by asking. This was also coming from a man
1:30.5	who is a bit of a celebrity and quite powerful. It was a little bit romantic to me. So I think
1:36.9	that the woman you asked just doesn't get it. On the same night with the same man, he opened
1:42.5	up to me. I told him I was nervous, and he confided in me that he was nervous and insecure too.
1:47.7	It automatically puts me at ease. Several days later in a phone conversation, he said he noticed I
1:53.7	was more relaxed with him and at ease. I told him it was because he was vulnerable with me, and it
1:58.9	made me feel more comfortable, and I appreciated that. We had some nice conversations and times,
2:04.6	ultimately, things didn't work out between us for lots of other reasons, but you are spot on
2:10.0	about the vulnerability stuff. I'm loving the podcast, and so glad it's back. Well, thank you so
2:16.5	much for that anonymous reader, and I love that you were able to connect with the vulnerability
2:24.2	episode, and that was when Matt spoke about his experiences of asking a woman to kiss him on a
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