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We're being busy is overdone romancing is fun and scheduling sex is taking the guesswork at a wondering when you're gonna

Get some I'm Tony Deloranzo your co-host along with my beautiful wife Alisa from coast to coast and around the world

Thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex love and commitment

Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 858 875 6663 or send us an email to hugs at 1x your nary marriage dot com

In today's show we're talking about what you can do to break the roommate cycle by infusing some freshness back into your marriage

There's an anonymous quote that says it's time to break the cycle. It's time to heal

It's time to grow

And I think we're talking about the roommate cycle all three of those things are applicable

It's time to break the cycle. It's time to heal your marriage and it's time to grow in your marriage and we're talking about that on today's show

But first and foremost we start every show with a hug and a hug is really it's an opportunity for us to go look at what you're doing

Look at what happens when you take intention and take intentional action in your marriage

And this hug came from a post that was up on the one extraordinary marriage Facebook page that says

I am so relieved to have stumbled upon the one podcast and family my wife and I have been together four years married for one and a half

And we've had some pretty extreme ups and downs. I was a terrible partner for a good majority of those years

I struggled with pornography, alcohol and drug abuse that stem from my upbringing and poor self-esteem

Mm-hmm. I was incredibly secretive about all of it

I opened up in early 2020 about my porn addiction, but eventually relapsed due to some other substance issues in

In 2021 my wife stumbled upon some of my substances and that led me that has led me to coming up on a year of abstinence from all

Substances that make me a monster choosing to leave the rest of my life on the straight edge

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