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From San Diego, California. This is a one extraordinary marriage show

We're being busy is overdone romancing is fun and scheduling sex is taking the guess work out of wondering when you're gonna get some

I'm Tony Deloranzo your co-host along with my beautiful wife Alisa from coast to coast and around the world

Thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex love and commitment gives a collar Texas on the hug hotline at 858 875 6663 or send us an email to hugs at

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And today's show we're talking about putting together your estate plan as you strengthen your financial intimacy and

Financial future. There's a quote from Alan Lincoln that says planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it now

Mm-hmm, and as we talk about you know taking care of your financial future

That's exactly what we're doing. We're bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it right now

But first we start every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug and really a hug is an opportunity for us to celebrate

You to celebrate what you've done in your marriage and and to celebrate taking action in your marriage

Right, this hug comes from a post that was put up in the one family Facebook group that starts with we have finished our

30-day challenge way to go what a ride from where we started to where we are now is a massive difference

We talked about more things in the past month than we have in years both sexual and non-sexual

We still have work to do on our emotional pillar as we always do, but the journey has started takeaways

Lou was a must as is mentioned many times on the show

One of the things that I noticed is that around week two to week three

I no longer had to think to initiate conversations. It happened organically

Although I still struggle sometimes to start conversations due to a brain injury my wife is able to pick up the slack

Being intentional during the first two weeks carried over to just being normal

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