686 - People meet you at the depth they’ve met themselves

New Mindset, Who Dis?

Case Kenny

Motivation, Selfhelp, Mindset, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Wellness, Relationships, Mental Health, Inspiration, Personaldevelopment, Society & Culture

4.9 • 6K Ratings

🗓️ 27 March 2025

⏱️ 14 minutes

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In this episode, I talk about how to know if someone has "met themselves." I talk about how to gauge someone's self-awareness and why this is so important in a relationship. My book, "That's Bold of you" is available on Amazon. Instagram: @case.kenny

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome to the new mindset hootis podcast. My name is Case Kenney at case.kens.k on
0:07.2	Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping
0:13.0	you become the person you're meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a purposeful and
0:17.9	fulfilling life. Let's go.
1:12.5	Thank you. live a purposeful and fulfilling life. Let's go. All right. Welcome to episode 686. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Minds at Who Dis. As always, thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me. And today, people meet you at the depth they've met themselves, aka, if someone doesn't have self-awareness, it's going to be a real challenge to have a genuine connection with them. I want to talk about the times in life that I'm sure you can relate to, unfortunately, where maybe you meet someone, a potential partner and things look great.
1:18.2	You click, you have that energy and that enthusiasm between you too. It's shared. The boxes are checked.
1:24.0	Things are looking great. But then you get a bit more into it. Some time passes,
1:28.1	things get a bit more serious, the pretense drops a bit, the perfection that started,
1:33.5	the perfect behavior drops. And now you're two real genuine people dating. And then at some point,
1:39.9	they hit you with the classic line. I just don't think I can offer you what you're looking for.
1:45.9	I really, really care about you. I really, really care about you. In another universe, this would
1:50.0	work out, but I'm just not there emotionally. I'm still working on myself. There's just some
1:54.8	things I need to make sense of. I'm just not ready. Right. And you're left there stunned.
2:00.3	You're like, what are you talking about?
2:01.6	You can't offer me what I'm looking for? Well, you've been offering it. Like, what changed?
2:05.4	What is going on? I want to talk about this. I want to talk about why the line is so true that people can
2:12.2	only meet you as deeply as they've met themselves. Have you heard that before? People can only meet you as deeply as
2:19.2	they've met themselves. That's what I want to talk about. I've done episodes on the more surface
2:23.4	level here about what to think when someone pulls a 180 on you and pulls back. I've talked
2:29.2	about how some people will purposely keep you at arm's distance. Like we've talked about the
2:33.3	practicalities of that behavior.
2:36.7	But for this, I want to talk about another layer of depth here that is a absolute requirement
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