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🗓️ 25 November 2025
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Sneaky negativity is the quietest confidence killer in your mind — and the most dangerous.
You might think you're being realistic… responsible… self-aware… or even positive enough. But what if some of your most ordinary, everyday thoughts are actually draining your confidence, weakening your follow-through, lowering your energy, and keeping you stuck — without ever sounding negative at all?
In this episode, we expose the disguises negativity wears: the doubts that dress up as wisdom, the self-pressure that pretends to be motivation, and the subtle ways high achievers accidentally talk themselves out of their own potential. Chances are, you've been thinking one or two of these thoughts this week — maybe even today.
If you've ever wondered, "Why do I feel heavy even when nothing is wrong?", this episode will finally make everything click.
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| 0:00.0 | I want to talk about sneaky negativity. Have you ever noticed how some thoughts don't sound |
| 0:07.0 | negative, but they leave you feeling smaller? Thoughts like, I should be further along. I'm just |
| 0:14.5 | being realistic. I'm fine. I'm just tired. They're not dramatic. They're not overtly or are obviously negative or harmful, |
| 0:24.0 | but they tightly and quietly get inside of you. They tighten your chest. They drain your momentum. |
| 0:31.9 | They dim your energy. The day feels harder. And then you don't even realize it's happening. |
| 0:38.5 | And that's what sneaky negativity does. |
| 0:41.8 | It's the negativity that doesn't look like negativity at all. |
| 0:45.2 | And it looks sometimes like logic. |
| 0:47.9 | It looks sometimes like being grown up. |
| 0:49.7 | It looks like you're just stating the facts like you're tired. |
| 0:53.1 | And yet, these subtle, sneaky, |
| 0:55.9 | negative thoughts might be the exact reason why your confidence feels lower than you want it to, |
| 1:01.0 | why your goals feel harder than they should, and why your mind feels heavier when life |
| 1:05.9 | looks, quote unquote, fine. You might find that you are actually the most negative person in your life, |
| 1:13.3 | and when we do that, we can then change it. This is not to call you out to make you feel bad, |
| 1:17.9 | but to empower you by exposing the thoughts that are actually holding you back. We're going to get |
| 1:23.6 | rid of those sneaky thoughts and replace them with powerful ones because you cannot |
| 1:28.1 | create a positive life from a negative mind. You're listening to the Confidence Podcast, your go-to |
| 1:34.2 | space for high-performance coaching designed for ambitious high achievers who want more out of life. |
| 1:41.6 | You deserve confidence that rises to meet your dreams. This is the podcast that |
| 1:46.0 | will help you activate it fully. I'm your host, Trish Blackwell. Let's dive in. Welcome to the |
| 1:52.1 | Confidence Podcast. I'm Trish Blackwell, your coach and you're listening to episode 679 sneaky. |
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