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The Jordan Harbinger Show

679: Mom's Bigotry Makes Romantic Future Hard to See | Feedback Friday

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Education, Business, Science

4.812.3K Ratings

🗓️ 2 June 2022

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

It's difficult to plan for a future with your long-term partner when their mother refuses to entertain the idea of getting to know you. In fact, you've never even met face-to-face because she doesn't like your race. So how do you get your significant other to address the reality that their mom's bigotry makes a romantic future together hard to see? We'll try to get to the bottom of this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/679

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
  • You've never met your partner's mother face-to-face because she doesn't like your race. How do you address the reality that this bigotry makes a future together hard to see?
  • How do you get over a lifelong reluctance to speak out and get help before your poor performance due to work-related stress takes away your dream career?
  • You can openly support your Ukrainian coworkers as Putin's aggression against them drags on, but how do you show your Russian colleagues who don't support the war that you recognize their uncertainty and sadness during this difficult time without prompting them to say anything that could get them in trouble with their government?
  • You were a childhood victim of sexual abuse, and now find yourself as an adult with an addiction to porn and massage parlors that fills you with shame and massive debt. How can you break free from this self-destructive pattern of behavior? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and addiction specialist Dr. Rubin Khoddam for helping us field this one!]
  • You regret the generosity of offering your ne'er-do-well brother-in-law a job reference because you've come to realize that you can't, in good conscience, vouch for his reliability. What do you do when being generous and making the right call don’t quite line up?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
  • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.
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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Feedback Friday.

0:05.0

I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger.

0:07.0

As always, I'm here with Feedback Friday producer, the SPF 50 sunscreen block and the harsh

0:11.0

rays of this UV life advice, Gabriel Mizrahi.

0:14.7

On the Jordan Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets and skills of the world's

0:18.3

most fascinating people and turn their wisdom into practical advice that you can use to

0:22.6

impact your own life and those around you.

0:25.2

We want to help you see the matrix when it comes to how these amazing people think and

0:28.9

behave.

0:29.9

Our mission is to help you become a better informed, more critical thinker so you can get a

0:34.4

much deeper understanding of how the world works and make sense of what's really happening

0:38.4

even inside your own mind.

0:40.3

If you're new to the show, on Fridays we give advice, we answer listener questions.

0:44.2

The rest of the week we have long form interviews and conversations with a variety of amazing

0:49.4

folks from spies to CEOs, athletes, authors, thinkers and performers.

0:54.4

This week we had Sam Cooper, an investigative journalist out of Vancouver who uncovered

0:58.3

a massive, massive money laundering operation that goes from China, the US, Canada, drug

1:04.9

money is involved, triad gangs are involved, really interesting episode.

1:08.7

We had former FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss.

1:11.9

He's been on the show before always a really interesting take on negotiation.

1:15.6

Of course great stories about terrorists and sharp shooters and bank robbers and everything

1:20.0

in between.

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