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Relationship Advice

67: Treat Your Partner How They Want To Be Treated

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2016

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How Darek's experience as a Navy Seal helped him write his new book. Treat your spouse how they would like to be treated. How we can become blind to the things that need to be done to help fix a relationship. And much more! In today's episode we are joined by Senior Chief Darek Laviolette US Navy SEAL (ret). Darek served 24 years of active duty, 9 combat deployments and received the Bronze Star with Valor. However, Darek's most proud work is helping men and women through rough spots in their marriages. His book A Seal to Heal Your Marriage helps with just that. I Do Podcast is also supported by: Audible: Use the link below, and sign up for a free 30-day trial and one free audiobook download! You will have to enter your CC information, but you can just cancel the trial at the end of the month if you don’t like it and not pay a dime. There are a ton of great relationship audiobooks on Audible.com. Consider downloading The 5 Love Languages for your free download.   If you haven’t already subscribed to I Do Podcast and left us a review on iTunes, that helps us a ton as well Thanks! – Chase and Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

You're going to. Take me to the plates in the middle of the sun. Listen. What's going on? What's going on, love,

0:25.0

What's going on, Love Tribe?

0:28.0

Welcome to Ido Podcast, where we interview the world's leading relationship, marriage, dating, and self-help experts.

0:36.8

If you're in a relationship, married, single, struggling, we're here to help you with the tools to succeed. You're in the right place.

0:45.0

On today's show we have Derek Laveolet.

0:50.0

And Derek is a retired Navy SEAL and has a super interesting story.

0:56.5

He served 24 years in the SEALs, nine combat deployments, but kind of his most proud work now is that in helping

1:08.0

people in their relationships in their marriages.

1:11.0

And he has a really interesting story because he comes from a place of kind of

1:17.8

of pain where he had a failed marriage and he lost his wife and kids and sunk to this incredible low and

1:29.1

here you have a guy who is a Navy SEAL and when I think of a Navy seal I think of you know strongest most rugged

1:36.7

tough men and and they are but emotionally know, we're all susceptible to these things and

1:46.7

His relationship went down the drain and it just was the hardest thing he ever dealt with in his life and then he's made it his life's work now to make

1:57.6

sure no one else experiences the pain and goes through what he went through and he's the first to admit it came from his own

2:06.7

mistakes and just things that he did not realize he was doing and he was so wrapped up in himself and he talks about it a little bit in the interview

2:17.6

and some of the tools to help you understand to take a step back and get out of that downward spiral and kind of

2:27.8

save your marriage, save your relationship.

2:30.8

And Derek has a book out a seal to save your marriage where he just draws on

2:35.4

this personal experience of this terribly hard time in his life, losing his

2:41.9

marriage and from the perspective of a Navy seal and so it's kind of

2:47.0

written as a mission plan so definitely interesting you can read the first

2:51.8

chapter for free at a seal to save your

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