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From San Diego, California, this is a oneextraudinary marriage show. We're being busy

is overdone. Romance is fine and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering

when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Dilloranzo, your co-host along with my beautiful wife, Alisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to dock sex, love and commitment. Give us a call on the hug hotline at 888-8765-663

or send us an email to hugs at oneextraudinarymarriage.com.

In today's show, we're talking about oral sex for him and for her and the role it plays within

your marriage. And there's an anonymous quote that says oral sex can be foreplay, the main course,

or the dessert. And you know, honestly, we couldn't agree more, which is why we're going to do this

show today. And you know, we start each and every oneextraudinary marriage show with a hug and a

hug is an opportunity for you to hear from someone else in the one family and just the amazing

things that are happening in their marriage. This hug, though, comes from an Instagram message

that we received and it says this, oh, actually, this was an email, not an Instagram message.

Because she starts off saying this email is long overdue. But last year, my husband and I completed

the seven days of sex challenge. I first discovered your podcast after our second son was born.

I was struggling with finding my desire for sex again. Initially, I couldn't get enough of your

podcast and I finally shared it with my husband, but then kids and life happened. And although I was

listening, I wasn't implementing. Our sex life was okay. Our marriage was good. But I knew we were

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