We all have those people, the ones that just grind on you.

They seem to just rub you the wrong way, but honestly, they're not doing anything wrong.

And sometimes it's hard to put your finger on what is it about this person that just feels so irritating.

These are the ones who challenge your patients, who poke at your insecurities, or seem to test your emotional

limits by just existing. Like, if not necessarily, even a conversation you have. I want to talk to you

about what I call sandpaper people. We're going to talk about how these are the best people in

your life, whether it's a co-worker, a hard to work with family member, or just a neighbor that just, oh, gosh, irritates you.

And you go, why am I so bothered?

I want to tell you today that your sandpaper person is a gift because they are smoothing out something for you.

So if someone's been getting under your skin, then this episode is a must listen for you.

And even if no one's bothering you right now, listen, we're humans. Human relationships and

interactions are complex. So you should still listen so that you know what to do the next time

someone just rubs you the wrong way so you can stay

in a place of confidence and kindness and power. You're listening to the Confidence Podcast,

where we do confidence coaching for driven high achieving women who want more, because high

achieving women deserve high level confidence.

I'm your host, Trish Blackwell.

Let's get started.

Hey there, welcome to the Confidence Podcast.

My name is Trish Blackwell, and I am your host.

This is episode 662.

We're talking about sandpaper people and how to grow from people who rub you the wrong way.

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