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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

661: STOP KEEPING SCORE

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.61.7K Ratings

🗓️ 27 July 2021

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Learn about what happens when you're keeping score in your marriage with this recurring statement in your mind, “I do more than you”. | "The minute you start keeping score you’re destroying the relationship." —Tony Robbins Do You Need Personal Help to Improve Your Marriage? Talking about your marriage can be a sensitive topic. Words can be taken the wrong way and suddenly you have an argument on your hands. You want to help your marriage yet you find yourself hurting it (and each other). It's amazing how the little things can hurt your marriage...Or big things that you don't even realize are happening. Problems are swept under the rug and ignored until someone asks for a divorce. Apply for Coaching with Alisa Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Did you know the average couple waits six years to get help for challenges in their marriage?

0:04.2

That's six years of struggling and feeling like something's off.

0:07.2

I'm wondering why you can't seem to change things. Stop waiting and apply for coaching today

0:11.7

at oneextraudinarymarriage.com slash coaching.

0:14.6

From San Diego, California, this is a one-extraudinary marriage show.

0:18.0

We're being busy is overdone, romance is fun,

0:20.5

and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork and I'm wondering when you're going to get some.

0:24.0

I'm Tony Dilloranzo, your co-host along with my beautiful wife, Alisa.

0:28.0

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

0:31.5

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

0:34.2

Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 858-876-566-3

0:39.1

or send us an email to hugs at oneextraudinarymarriage.com.

0:44.4

In today's show, we're talking about what happens when you have this recurring statement in your mind.

0:49.5

I do more than you.

0:51.3

In Tony Robbins had this to say about this very thing. He said,

0:55.2

the minute you start keeping score, you're destroying the relationship.

1:00.6

And that's exactly what happens when that thought comes into your head.

1:03.0

I'm doing more than you. I do more than you.

1:05.6

And that's what we're going to be pulling apart on today's show.

1:07.5

But first, we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug.

1:11.8

And a hug is an opportunity for you to hear from someone else in the one family

1:15.3

who's experiencing breakthrough, who's seen change in transformation in their marriage.

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