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Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney

66. How to Be A Sensual Man

Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney

Ev'Yan Whitney, Sexuality Doula®

Sex, Womenshealth, Wellness, Health & Fitness, Bodymindfulness, Education, Sexual, Sensuality, Queer, Nonbinary, Sexuality, Bipoc, Sexology, Liberation, Women, Somatic

4.7758 Ratings

🗓️ 26 April 2022

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

Sensuality is not just for women and femmes. Men and masc folks are sensual too. In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with artist, writer, and dancer Maceo Paisley about the many things that keep men from accessing and embracing their sensual selves. They also talk about using dance as a way to connect to the body; how Maceo defines sensuality for himself; the pain and pleasure binary; and how to encourage your partner/loved one to access his sensual softness.


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0:00.0

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0:48.3

I'm Evian Whitney, and this is a space for you to slow down, tune in, heal and feel the sensations and

0:58.5

pleasures of your sensual body. Thank you for being here.

1:08.1

A few episodes ago, I mentioned that I was really interested in exploring men's sensuality.

1:17.4

Like, what it looks like for men and masculine of sinner folks to be soft and sensual.

1:25.5

I'm curious about this because I noticed that in all the workshops I've taught and all of

1:32.5

the conversations I've had about sensuality, it's assumed that this is for women folk,

1:39.5

and I'm putting that in quotations, only that those who dwell more in the feminine side of the energy spectrum

1:47.5

are allowed to access the softness and pleasure in their own bodies. And everyone else has to be

1:54.5

hard, rigid, or just sturdy. This is something I've explored a couple of times on this podcast, more recently

2:03.1

with my partner Jonathan in episode 60, and way, way back in the day when this space was called

2:10.6

something else on episode 23, which was more about men's sexuality than sensuality, but, you know, it overlaps.

2:20.4

I think what's so fascinating to me about this is how patriarchy harms us all, even the men

2:27.7

who created and are prospering within it. And because my work is about sensuality and sex and being in our bodies, I'm always

2:38.6

wondering how patriarchy has affected and oppressed the way that men and mask folks express

2:47.8

themselves within those realms. So today's episode, we're going to dive deep into

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