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From San Diego, California, this is a one-extradinary marriage show. We're being busy

is overdone. Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering

when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Dilloranzo, your co-host along with my beautiful wife,

from coast to coast and around the world. Thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call on the hug hotline at 888-8765-663

or send us an email to hugs at oneextradinarymarriage.com.

In today's show, we're talking about the color of your underwear and the influence it has on you

and your marriage. And there's a quote from Coco Chanel that talks about color and she says

the best color in the world is the one that looks good on you. Amen.

Amen. And we're going to be talking a lot about that in today's shows. We talk about the color

of your underwear. But first and foremost, we start each one extraordinary marriage show with a hug.

This hug comes from a Facebook message that we received and it starts off. I wanted to send

a big thank you to both of you. My husband and I have been married 19 years and we have never

really even talked about sex. Wow. Yes. 19 years. Okay. Hello. I have a past of being raised where we

don't talk about it and my first experience was date rape as a teenager. Oh, shoot.

Then after many years of horrible experiences, I found myself pregnant alone and far away from my

relationship with Christ. I had been raised in a very strict Christian home. Later, God provided

me with a husband but life in the bedroom has always been one of anxiety to me. I love my husband

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