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From San Diego, California, this is a oneextraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy as overdone. Romancing is fun and scheduling sex is taking the

guesswork at a wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Dilloranzo, your co-host,

along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world,

thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 888-875-663 or send us an email to hugs at

oneextraordinarymarriage.com. On today's show, we're talking about why it's important to

continuously invest in your marriage long after you said, I do to one another.

There's a quote attributed to Brian Herbert that says,

the capacity to learn is a gift. The ability to learn is a skill. The willingness to learn

that is a choice. When we talk about continuously investing in your marriage and what that looks

like, we're going to be covering all of that. It is a gift, a skill, and a choice. But first,

we start every oneextraordinary marriage show with a hug. The hug is actually an opportunity

for us to celebrate you. To celebrate the one family and what you all are doing and how

you're transforming your marriage. And this hug actually came from an email that we received

that started off saying, I'm writing this to you on the second day after finding out my husband

has had an affair. I have truly never felt pain like this before. I never knew that emotional

pain could physically hurt. Today is slightly better than yesterday. However, one day at a time is

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