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dedicated to helping you become the person you're meant to be leave

your comfort zone and live a purposeful and fulfilling life.

Let's go. Oh, All right. Welcome to episode 645. Hello my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of new mindset who this as always

thank you so much for listening thank you for supporting me and today I want to talk

about chasing I want to talk about why you, me, us, we should never, under any circumstance, ever chase someone.

And certainly I'm not saying you should never make a move express yourself show interest in someone first follow up

Be the first to like them. It's not that I'm not talking about not putting in effort I'm saying don't chase and advice like don't chase is

not earth-chattering by any means everyone says that every piece of dating

advice says don't chase attract don't chase a tract and I want to talk about this but instead of just

reiterating that I want to talk about why chasing isn't so much what people think it is and as a

result even in the face of you of clear and obvious and accepted advice like,

don't chase, we still do it. We still chase, but we dress it up as something else.

So first and foremost, what does it actually mean like energetically and literally? What does it mean for you to chase someone?

Chasing is trying to tip the scales in your favor.

It means there's an imbalance, an effort, and intention between you and someone else,

and you're trying to tip that scale back so it's even even and so in that regard

chasing isn't so much what we think of all of the times right

it's not about putting in effort or going above and beyond for someone you care about that that's just effort and that is healthy effort is great

but effort is not the same thing as chasing making the first move is not the

same thing as chasing following up after our first date is not the same thing as chasing, saying,

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