So it's a public call, right?

So just if you can remember to stay off names and places,

I'd be thrilled beyond measure.

And yeah, I'm all the years.

If you want to get me up to speed,

the message was a tad scanty,

so I'm sure there's a lot more to get involved in.

For sure.

Yeah, the main premise is I'm trying to clarify in my mind how I know whether this feeling I have

of relief at the idea of separating from my wife divorce comes from a healthy place or if I'm

more running away from something that's difficult.

And that's basically the question I've crystallized it down to right now.

There's a lot to it.

But yeah, so I can start wherever.

I guess I can just add've we've had a really rough marriage um mostly in the

last two three years and i'm i suspect we're at the point of no return in terms of the trust

and affection but i also don't want to

give up. I feel guilty about giving up if there's something that can be done, if there's

something that I can do, to have a healthy and happy relationship. So that's the intro, I guess.

And I would like your help in clarifying that.

Sure, I'm certainly happy to help.

And I guess you can tell me what has brought you to this state.

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