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629. Move from Anxious or Avoidant to Secure in Your Relationships

Almost 30

Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik

Alternative Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.54K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2023

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

Do you find yourself anxious, avoidant or secure in your relationships?  Understanding your attachment style can help you sustain healthier relationships with all of your loved ones. In this episode, K+L break down the various attachment theories and discuss how to become more secure. They provide examples from their own life (and friendship!) where the different types have prevailed.  And though you may lean more towards being anxious or avoidant, it doesn't mean your default is permanent. Change is always possible and by becoming more aware, you’ll find that not only will your relationships with others flourish, but also you’ll become more secure and confident in yourself.  We also talk about: The attachment styles explained Anxious vs. avoidant attachment style Learning to co-create a relationship How to be in a relationship with different styles K+L’s reflections on past relationships The progression of K+L’s friendship dynamic How to become more secure in a relationship Resources:  Instagram: @itskrista Instagram: @lindseysimcik Episode Related Resources:  Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Sponsors: Hatch | Hatch is offering you $20 off your purchase of a Hatch Restore 2 and free shipping at hatch.co/almost30. Vessi Footwear | Head to vessi.com/almost30 and use code almost30 for 15% off.  Ritual | Visit ritual.com/ALMOST30 to start Ritual or add Essential for Women 18+ or Prenatal to your subscription today.  LMNT | Get 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order at drinkLMNT.com/ALMOST30.  E-Boost | Go to eboost.com/ALMOST30 to get your free 4 pack of Superfuel. The Fall Equinox Sale | Invest now, evolve forever. Check out our suite of offerings and use code “FALL” to get 44% off. Now through 9/26/23. Learn more at almost30.com/almost30sale.  To advertise on our podcast, please reach out to sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/Almost30.  Learn More: almost30.com/learn almost30.com/morningmicrodose almost30.com/courses  Join our community: almost30.com/membership facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Find more to love at almost30.com! Almost 30 is edited by Marielle Marlys.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Almost 30 Podcast. I'm Lindsay and I'm Krista and we're your hosts, guides and friends on this path.

0:07.0

Almost 30 is not about your age, it's about the feeling. All of us are almost something, seeking community and resources to support the rumblings of transformation within us.

0:17.0

Our conversations are deep dives, shepherded by our insatiable curiosity and desire for connection and during inspiration and a sense of levity that we can all benefit from.

0:28.0

We're looking to find the magic in the human experience. Buckle up baby, your evolution is waiting.

0:35.0

Hello and welcome to Almost 30 Podcast. My name is Krista Williams and I am so glad you're here.

0:41.0

I am Lindsay. Seems like I'm also glad you're here. We're on a couch. We're chilling on a couch.

0:46.0

We're trying to find the perfect position of our body. We're trying to find the arch in my back.

0:51.0

The arm away from the body as a eight months pregnant. I'm like, wow, this is beautiful.

0:58.0

How can I get the curve? You look great. I know. Well, I have my, I have to fully face you during this whole interview because this is my good side.

1:07.0

We were on my bad side last interview and I was tanked because of it. That's one thing if you have enough photos taken of yourself, you realize that you have a good side or a bad side.

1:16.0

I just haven't gone there to analyze it yet because I'm like, what I can't.

1:21.0

I did it in college. I was like, oh, something's going on with me.

1:26.0

In some photos I like and some photos I didn't. So I studied and said, what do I like? What do I not? It's a good idea.

1:31.0

Yeah. It makes you more confident when you figure out your angles or how to move or it's like knowing like what to wear.

1:37.0

Yes. It's not even vanity. It's setting yourself up for success.

1:42.0

I guess it is vanity because if I think I have my bad angle showing it is, I'm a beast.

1:47.0

If you're new to almost 30, welcome. We're so grateful you're here. Thank you to the person that told you about almost 30.

1:53.0

Lindsey and I have been doing this for about seven years now. It is our full-time thing. We have an amazing team that supports us with our courses and programs, our membership,

2:02.0

the podcast itself and all the amazing things that we do at almost 30. We're a community of women mostly all over the world.

2:10.0

And we're here to support you in your conscious evolution in talking about things that have been helpful for us, that have been influential for us.

2:16.0

And today's episode is going to be so much fun. It will be with Lindsey and I.

2:21.0

So we'll do interviews, so episodes and then we'll have conversations with Lindsey and I where we can talk about things like attachment styles, which is the conversation we will be having today,

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