All right, so this is a roll-up show, a greatest hit show.

I get this question a lot, and I got it recently, in particular about the leave behinds, right?

Let's say that you've had a bad family and various things escalate.

You have the conversation with your parents.

It goes badly, and you decide to defoo.

A foo, of course, being family of origin, defooing is like a divorce, or at least a trial separation,

as a result of sort of relentlessly bad behavior.

And the defoo is not primarily, of course, about your parents and it's not primarily

about the past. The D-Fu is primarily about the future, right? I love economics, as you know,

fairly well-trained in it and well-read in. And of course, with economics, the big issue

is not the visible benefits, but the hidden costs. That's the big thing with economics.

Right. If the government spends $5 million to create 100 jobs, you say, ooh, there's 100 jobs.

Economics is about the things you don't see or can't see, which is all of the

jobs that are not created because the government took those $5 million from businesses

and taxpayers and so on. So the DFU as a whole is not to do with your parents and it's not to do with the past.

If you have a crazy, dysfunctional, abusive, and perhaps even, I've certainly talked to people

with this challenge, an outright evil family, then the D-FU is not fundamentally about the past. It's not fundamentally about your parents.

It's about who can't come into your life if your parents are still in your life.

Who are your abusive parents blocking from coming into your life? Right. That's what really

matters. That's what really matters. That's what really matters.

I can tell you this without a shadow of a doubt, although my wife has never met, my mother.

If my mother and others were still in my life, my wife would never have married me. In fact,

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