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Stefan Molyneux

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🗓️ 28 September 2025

⏱️ 18 minutes

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In this segment from the 28 September 2025 Sunday Morning Live Donors stream, Stefan explores the complexities of toddler behavior and effective parenting strategies through the lens of a parent's experience with their three-year-old son asserting autonomy in choosing the order of sock-wearing. He discusses the natural power struggle that arises as children test boundaries, suggesting that parents can foster reasoning skills by engaging in open dialogue rather than giving in to demands. Key concepts include negotiating desires, recognizing the universality of rules through Kant's categorical imperative, and understanding the importance of trade-offs in social interactions. Ultimately, Stefan advocates for parents to expose their children to discussions around preferences and boundaries to promote empathy and critical thinking as they mature.

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0:00.0	Hi, Steph.
0:01.9	I have a son who just turned three.
0:03.8	I try to follow his lead a lot and cater to his desires,
0:07.4	e.g. what playground we go to, which fruit to eat for a snack, etc.
0:15.2	But lately I am unsure whether he is misusing his power or if it's just a normal stage of toddlerhood.
0:20.6	Example one. I put on his socks and I'm almost done when he claims,
0:24.6	oh no, mama, I wanted my right sock on first.
0:27.7	When I put his left sock on first, what's your approach?
0:30.2	Is it a power struggle?
0:31.6	Oh, that's interesting.
0:33.6	That's interesting.
0:34.4	So he's testing whether you are a sort of obedience robot.
0:39.3	You're testing how much power he has.
0:47.3	He's testing how much power he has.
0:49.3	So I'm trying to think, I put myself in your shoes.
0:51.3	Ooh, tight.
0:53.3	I'm trying to put myself in your shoes. Okay, so my kid says,
0:57.0	I wanted my left sock put on first. So then I would say he's three, right? Is he closer to four or
1:08.2	closer to three? Like at this age, that makes a big difference.
1:11.3	It's like 25% of his entire lifespan.
1:13.3	It's like 15 to 20 years later on in life.
1:15.8	Is he closer to four or is he closer to three?
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