This is Ask Lisa, a podcast to help people understand the psychology of parenting.

Psychologist Dr. Lisa DeMore, author of two New York Times best-selling parenting books, takes your questions.

And I'm co-host, Rina Ninan, a journalist and mom of two.

Some of what we talk about comes from raising children ourselves.

Most of the time, I'll be getting answers to your parenting questions.

So send your questions to Ask Lisa at Dr.Lisademore.com.

Episode 61, we're presenting an encore episode.

My child looked at porn. What should I do? This remains one of our top performing episodes and a topic I was really surprised Lisa wanted us to discuss.

But after this aired, I understood fully why.

Just in the past couple of weeks, American singer, 19--old Billy Eilish had this to say about porn.

I think it really destroyed my brain, and I feel incredibly devastated that I was exposed to so much porn.

So to end the year, we have an encore episode.

My child looked at porn. What should I do?

So I got the question, where do babies come from?

And I'm so grateful you always have great advice.

And I asked my son, where did this come from?

Like, how did you start thinking about this?

And he said he saw a show.

And the actor in the show, the kid said,

if you want to see parents so confused and unable to answer you, ask them, where do babies come from?

It made me think, what is he consuming that I don't know about?

It was one of these teeny bob shows.

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