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🗓️ 24 August 2025
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0:00.0 | Hey, everybody, Steve I'm all in you from Free Domain. |
0:02.1 | Some more questions from the fine users at X. |
0:05.4 | Somebody writes. |
0:07.6 | There seems to be a widening gap between healthy and traumatized people. |
0:11.3 | Even the smallest gestures can trigger someone. |
0:14.5 | Ask our daughter-in-law, how was our visit for her |
0:16.8 | if she felt there were things we could improve on or if that would be helpful. |
0:40.3 | It's our first time being grandparents. Reassured her we had a lovely visit. She snapped back with, why are you asking this? What is wrong with just having a visit? It was a trauma, dad, speaking. Do I just avoid combos or play their game? It's weird and avoidance. Oh, I'm sorry about that. Yeah, I'm sorry about that. You know, when you try to be nice and, trust me, I've had a wee bit of experience with this |
0:45.6 | myself, not to make it about me, of course. But you try to be nice and, well, what happens? |
0:52.6 | People just get snappy and so on, right? So there are basically, |
0:58.4 | and, you know, this is kind of a cliche. There are two types of people in this world, but this |
1:02.9 | one I'm pretty sure of and this is, you know, really hard one experience, which of course doesn't |
1:07.7 | mean that I'm right, but I certainly have some reasons for what I'm saying. |
1:18.2 | There are two types of people in this world. The people who respond with niceness to niceness, |
1:25.7 | and the people who respond with aggression to niceness. So if you're nice to people and your solicitor said you ask them how you're doing and what you can |
1:28.5 | improve and so on, right? There are people who respond to that in a positive and friendly manner |
1:35.1 | and in the spirit in which it is intended, which is to gain feedback to improve the relationship, |
1:39.9 | and then there are people who say, oh, this person is nice. |
1:46.1 | That means they're weak. |
1:48.0 | That means they care about my feelings. |
1:50.6 | That means I'm dominant in the relationship. |
1:54.4 | So people who are empathetic and want to provide quality interactions in a relationship, they want to merge. |
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