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From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy as overdone.

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex is taking the guesswork out of wondering

when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us on the Hug hotline at 858-765663

or send us an email to Hugs at one extraordinary marriage.

On today's show, we're talking about those things that you find irritating and how to find resolution

for them.

And there's a quote of tribute to anonymous that says, at times a person's actions irritate us but not their words. At other times

a person's words irritate us but not their actions and sometimes both words

and actions are irritating. See the suffering behind these, ignore the irritation, and act with compassion.

That's really good. It's a whole new spin on looking at those little irritations, which is what we're going to be talking about in today's show.

But first we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug.

And a hug is an opportunity for you to just hear from someone else in the family,

the one family whose marriage has experienced transformation either individually or as a couple and they've

started making changes in their lives and this hug comes from an Instagram message we received that says

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