Hello and welcome to the new Mindset Who-This podcast. My name is Case Kenny at

Case. Cany on Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no-BS episodes

dedicated to helping you become the person you're meant to be leave

your comfort zone and live a purposeful and fulfilling life.

Let's go. Oh, All right. Welcome to episode 602. Hello my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of new mindset who this as always

thank you so much for listening thank you for supporting me and today I want to talk

about why certain people struggle to, are unwilling to, are unable to meet you at your level

with the growth you've had, with the standards you have, the boundaries you have, the wisdom you have.

Do you know what I'm talking about here? This is when like you're dating someone say and

there you are. You've done the work, you're you push yourself to be open and honest. You know yourself, you know your triggers, you know what makes you anxious, you've learned from your past mistakes.

You know how you want to be loved. You're eager to give love. You know that relationships aren't easy

You're willing to have difficult conversations. You're willing to rise up and challenge yourself

You're all of those things, right? Things that you've lived and learned

and healed and are still a work in progress, but the bar for you is there. It is high because of all those things you're doing and you've done it's something you've worked really hard to get to so you know it's not impossible

it means you're not too picky it It's nothing like that, but your bar, the bar for yourself and your relationships is high because of the work you've put in.

But there you are then, and maybe you're dating someone who is also fully capable of rising to that

occasion doing all the work you've done to challenging themselves knowing

themselves being vulnerable but they just refuse to do it. They refuse to meet you at your level.

They refuse to make that their level too. They refuse to be vulnerable and open and actually change

and grow. Maybe this is someone who hits you with classic lines like,

ah, you know, I've just always struggled with commitment, always have, always will.

Or someone who's like, yeah, you know, I just get so anxious and avoidant, I just can't help it, it's just who I am.

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