So when exactly did it happen?

You know, that moment, when did we stop choosing our lives and begin letting others take

the wheel?

Half living each day is a reaction to the constant barrage of never-ending

to-do lists and social obligations and work functions and status updates and feeds and more,

pummeled by reactive, autopilot busyness, rather than living life as an expression

of who we really are, of what matters most of that delicious, brilliant, soulful, sexy,

and vital part of us that yearns to not only see the light of day

but also to be seen

to be heard to be relished and loved, embraced, held, celebrated even.

When was the moment, when we walked away from what we once dreamed of becoming

and the life we once dreamed of living, seeding the quest

to craft an existence with intention and breathlessly try not to crumble while we do all we can

to just not fall too far behind.

Getting ahead, that is something for our dreams.

That is the question that we're exploring today.

And more importantly, what can we do about it? How can we actually close

the gap between a life of reactivity when we feel like we don't own into a life of agency and intentionality and

possibility and ease. In this very special episode we're calling the

Unbusy M

By the way in case you'd like to spend more time reading what we're about to experience

I've also posted a version of this over on my awake at the wheel newsletter and

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