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🗓️ 28 April 2025
⏱️ 130 minutes
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0:00.0 | Yeah, so I was in a sexless marriage for about 17 years. |
0:05.6 | The original call, I was trying to save that relationship because I have a now six-year-old |
0:11.6 | daughter during seven. |
0:13.1 | I was unsuccessful at that. |
0:16.6 | Divorce was just finalized. |
0:19.9 | The call centered around what I thought was love, I guess. |
0:27.1 | Sorry. |
0:28.4 | I'm sorry. |
0:28.9 | I don't know how to turn off the video. |
0:31.2 | There I found the button. |
0:32.9 | So, yeah, I spoke with you a year ago. |
0:38.1 | And what was revealing to me about that call was it originated in failing to |
0:45.7 | failing to resolve conflict in the marriage. |
0:49.3 | And I couldn't understand why me and my ex-wife are just fighting constantly and couldn't I was very frustrated |
0:59.8 | with her I was being abusive with her and I didn't understand why I was doing that and the call |
1:06.6 | pretty much illuminated you know mother issues essentially, essentially, never been love, never been |
1:13.6 | gaslit really about the definition of love for a very long time. And from that process, |
1:20.2 | I've been doing a lot of work trying to kind of undo that programming, which has led to where I am now, where I'm divorced, |
1:31.1 | I'm finding that I'm very depressed about it. I'm very depressed, general. I have a hard time |
1:38.0 | getting up and going to work. I kind of feel like I'm all over the place here. |
1:47.1 | And where, |
1:53.0 | it's like I have this kind of like sadistic bent where I like, |
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