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🗓️ 15 April 2025
⏱️ 163 minutes
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0:00.0 | So I wrote, Hello, Stefan. I'm in my early 20s with a Catholic background and was a virgin when I met my future husband who had a chaotic sexual path with toxic women. |
0:12.6 | I need your help to better understand myself. His sexual past is bothering me often when I think about it or when he is telling me about it, I will then |
0:22.9 | imagine it and send results with not wanting to show my husband affection and happiness, mood |
0:29.6 | change, and then I feel contempt for him, even though he did those things before me and treats me good, loving and with great |
0:39.3 | respect, besides one story with a woman. |
0:41.9 | Those imaginations, I heard a lot, and I will have thoughts like I'm not special and only |
0:48.1 | a number. |
0:49.4 | I know that I'm compared to some exes and also do it by myself. When I got to know his friends and also his female friend denied to me that they were friends with benefits. |
1:01.0 | And once later he told me the truth without repent. |
1:05.0 | And seriousness, I was very hurt. |
1:07.0 | He then said that I would have been better, that it would have been better not to tell the truth, |
1:14.5 | because then he wouldn't have such problems which still wounds me. |
1:21.6 | This showed me that he doesn't have the virtues of honesty and repentance, |
1:26.6 | but then other times he has. |
1:28.4 | He then wanted to invite us from her wedding, the imagination, lack of respect, and the shame of his want. |
1:35.9 | He led to many arguments and almost to breaking of our engagement. |
1:41.4 | This story that felt like he doesn't love me. I'm not the number one. He doesn't |
1:46.9 | respect and honor me and my family. My husband now has a lightly depression, a depressing face, |
1:53.7 | where he isn't showing much sexual desire. When I want to have sex, he just doesn't feel like it. |
2:01.6 | Yesterday, he said that one of the reasons is that I'm too much sexually available. |
2:09.6 | In the past, he needed to earn sex from his partner's heart, or it was scarce and not like with me sometimes it feels like he would want to |
2:20.5 | change my character and my thinking like he wouldn't like all of me it would be nice |
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