Okay, cool. Well, I'm going to just kind of lay this out. First and foremost, man, I'm a huge fan. I've been probably listening to this stuff for like 10 or so years. I don't spank my kids because of you. So there's another three boys coming into the world that are not going to be spank ever. So just I know you love to hear that.

But yeah, man, I'm basically, you've dealt with like the most bizarre situation possible from so many

dimensions.

So as I kind of walk through this,

I think you're probably going to go,

wait, stop there.

Hold on.

And there's like going to be a million of these little pillars where you could

probably double down and it's its own four-hour show.

So I'll kind of leave that up to you in terms of what like peaks, what you,

you know, red flags or stuff that kind of peaks your interest or whatever,

we can go into whatever. But bottom line is I,

at around 33, I got married to a woman that I had been with for several years and everything

seemed cool.

She was actually a single mother, but I was definitely like, you know, totally knew what I was

getting into with taking her daughter into my life.

Who's great.

And we had a son in 2015 and then another son in 2017.

And about a year after the second boy was born, there was some, I noticed some, you know, some a little bit of red flags in terms of, you know, just anger issues and, uh, emotional stuff.

And, you know, but I, I don't, I never knew what was normal and what was extreme.

It definitely might, my father had taken me aside and gone, hey man, don't have any more kids,

by the way, because, you know, this is, I can tell your,

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