All right, quick question from a donor.

Thank you for the donation.

He says, hi, Steph.

I'm a 30-year-old male.

Not sure if you do give advice through donations.

Recently, I've met a girl, 26-year-old female, through Facebook dating.

We hung out a few times, and after the third date, she opened up to me that she came to the U.S.

through student visa and overstayed for a few years now.

She dropped school because of her father passing and broke up with a long-distance boyfriend.

From conversing with her, she seems genuine, but deep down I have a feeling she is a red flag.

I've talked to my relatives about this situation, and they mostly suggested me to know more about her as a, quote, friend.

I want to know what is your advice on how to interact with her and find clues that she is

actually genuine. So, look, it's a big question, and I am going to, as I am occasionally one to do, I will annoy some people.

And none of this, of course, is designed to be a comment on, you know, what should or should

not be legal.

At the moment, mass immigration in general is not freedom of association, right? It's not freedom

of association because, in general, people, of course, come to countries and then they get, a lot of

times they get free stuff, right? And because they get free stuff, and often they'll get preferential loans or

hiring policies and so on, so it's not particularly freedom of association. If you come to a country

legally or illegally and people, you know, you get sort of, quote, free health care or free retirement

benefits or welfare

or subsidies or preferential hiring policies because of quota systems and so on, that's not

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