Okay, well, nice to meet you. Tell me and remind me the cause for the call. I couldn't find you through this regular call-in show folder. So just remind me what we're here for.

Oh, sure. So last time, I think we talked a few months ago, and we were talking about how we went through my childhood and how I was bullied and my parents were neglectful

and all that stuff. And then I ended up meeting a borderline girl who was a sex addict.

And you revealed to me that it was, you know, partially my fault that she ended up the way she did and we ended up using each other quite a bit and I

I struggled through that the last hour of that session just not understanding that I was as much a

I was as much a victim as I was the perpetrator of that whole situation.

Yeah, I remember now.

I'm all the years.

So yeah, what's the latest and greatest?

All right.

So my wife and I are currently in the throes of attempting to have our first child,

which is fantastic.

And I'm, I'm, I wanted to call in because I'm struggling to deal with her, you know,

her background, her sort of history and, uh, wanting to understand why she's, uh's sort of, well, she, sorry, I'm a bit nervous here, so you'll have, forgive me. Yeah, so she's having trouble with intimacy, and there's very, very good reasons for this. And I want to say from the other than that.

Do you mean sex?

No, no, no.

Not sex, but like everything.

And like, you know, no, there's very little like

cuddling or sweetness or any of that stuff.

She's very sort of like off in the corner doing her own thing.

And I sympathize with her and I struggle with her because I know exactly what she's going through.

And I'm, I just want to say by the outset that I'm not angry with her by any means.

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