578: Why Oversharing Is Actually Good For You and Your Relationships | Leslie John, PhD
The Genius Life
Max Lugavere
4.7 • 5K Ratings
🗓️ 25 May 2026
⏱️ 63 minutes
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Leslie John is a behavioral scientist and professor at Harvard Business School who joins Max to discuss the surprising science-backed benefits of oversharing, emotional vulnerability, self-deprecating humor and human connection.
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| 0:00.0 | What's Poppin family? It's episode 578 of The Genius Life. Let's go. |
| 0:07.9 | The genius The genius |
| 0:08.0 | What up here |
| 0:12.0 | What up what up up, what up? |
| 0:24.4 | What's going on, everybody? |
| 0:25.3 | I'm your host, Max Lugavir. |
| 0:26.6 | And welcome back to The Genius Life, a show where we explore how to live healthier, smarter, and longer, and occasionally discuss testicular emergencies in shocking detail. |
| 0:35.7 | Today's guest is Leslie John. She's a professor at Harvard Business |
| 0:39.2 | School and the author of Revealing, a fascinating new book about the surprising power of |
| 0:44.1 | oversharing. We unpack why so many of us fear vulnerability, why too little information may |
| 0:49.3 | actually be a bigger problem than TMI, and how opening up can strengthen relationships, |
| 0:53.9 | improve mental health, |
| 0:54.8 | and even make you more persuasive and likable. We also get into emotional literacy, |
| 1:00.2 | performative vulnerability on social media, it's everywhere, why self-deprecating humor is |
| 1:05.2 | secretly charismatic and how sharing embarrassing moments can actually deepen connection. |
| 1:10.2 | And yes, at one point, I shared the story of the time I had to drive myself to the emergency room with a twisted testicle and somehow ended up getting a date out of it. This episode was thoughtful, hilarious, awkward in the best way, and full surprisingly useful insights about human connection. Listen all the way through to the end. You're not going to want to miss a beat. And as always, don't forget to share this episode with friends and loved ones that you think may benefit from it. |
| 1:29.9 | Now, with all that out of the way, here's episode 578. |
| 1:33.2 | Let's rock. Leslie John, welcome to the show. How you doing? Thanks so much for having me. It's great to be here. Of course. I know we had to reschedule this because I had laryngitis, but I'm glad that you were able to make it back so we can make this happen. |
| 1:43.4 | That is, you can't do a podcast with laryngitis, right? |
| 1:46.2 | You can't do you literally cannot. |
| 1:48.2 | That's necessary. had laryngitis, but I'm glad that you were able to make it back so we can make this happen. That is, you can't do a podcast with laryngitis, right? |
| 1:46.2 | You can't do it. That's necessary. It happens. I don't get it frequently, but I had it and it was bad. And, uh, yeah, but I, I wanted to give your, uh, book, at least on this show, it's full day in the sun because it's such an important topic revealing the power, |
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